Ellie Claire

There are so many little things I don't want to forget, things I am already forgetting. Ellie was 3 months old on Wednesday, and the amount of photos and documenting I've done has been woefully inadequate. Girl doesn't even have a baby book yet! What a cliche for child #4. (I will be buying her one this week.)

  

Nicknames: Ellie, Elle, Elles, Elphaba, Ellie-belle.

Stats: At 7 weeks, she was 13 pounds. She doesn't go for a check-up for another month. 97% weight and 97% height; she definitely belongs to us. ;)

At 3 months, she is in size 3 diapers and 6mo clothing.

Sleep: She is actually a pretty good sleeper now. She had a few nights about a month ago where she'd sleep 6-7 hours straight (!!!) but that didn't last; thankfully, I didn't have my hopes up very high after my last 3 mediocre-to-poor sleepers. She is usually up 2-3 times a night. I can usually squeeze one good nap out of her a day, and a couple catnaps. She usually wants to be rocked for a few minutes before I set her in her bed; usually that settles her down enough so that she can fall asleep on her own. Sometimes she falls asleep in my arms but she doesn't transfer very well (does any baby?)

Temperament: Ellie was born at 3:16am, spent the first day of her life eating a lot and being generally pleasant, and the first night of her life fussing and squirming and wanting to eat and be held. I finally came to the conclusion that she must be cold - the hospital room was pretty chilly and she was in that little plastic bassinet all by herself, just wrapped in a swaddle blanket with a thin hat. I added an extra blanket and that seemed to help. Second day, calm and chill; second night, lots of fussing and thrashing. I was thinking, "What am I going to do with this baby at home!?!?" Thankfully she mellowed out a lot once we were home and she could be in the cute warm pajamas I got for her. She is totally a summer girl and likes to be warm (it was August but with the air conditioner on everywhere we went, her head and arms were always chilly!)

She was a pretty fussy little girl her first couple months. Not colicky, necessarily, just not as calm as the boys were. She had a few evenings where she just cried and cried and I didn't know what to do for her. She is past that stage now, and it's funny that I've almost forgotten it; "momnesia" is totally a real thing. Every hard evening, rough night, tough pregnancy, difficult labor, etc, doesn't seem so bad when it's just a distant memory. Usually.

She also went through a period for several weeks where she would let out a sharp cry when she was picked up, almost like something in her neck hurt. I took her to the doctor and nothing appeared to be wrong. We then tried the chiro, which seemed to help a lot. I am a believer now!

She is still fussy sometimes now, but normal fussy, and is usually calm once she is picked up. ;)

Health: She has had her first little cold in the past week, but really the only symptom has been a runny nose. She acts like it annoys her and snuffles a lot, which is just pretty cute.

She also had a hip click at her 1 (2?) week checkup, and went for a hip ultrasound at 2.5 months to check for hip dysplasia. The u/s came back negative, and we were told she could resume her "normal infant activities." Like, laying around...?

Hygiene: This girl blows out of a diaper at least once a day. I have a perpetual pile of laundry soaking in Oxiclean... 

Likes: Bouncy seat, warm jammies and hats, the Boba, being sung to, being held, attention. She tolerates the swing.

Dislikes: The car (!!!), dirty diapers...

Siblings: The boys LOVE her. They were obsessed with her when we came home from the hospital; always wanting to "pet" her (gentle, like how you would pet a puppy...) Andrew tested a little bit and gave her a few heavy pats, but has pretty much gotten past that. They can frequently be heard saying things like "She's soooo cute!". Ben is usually the most interested.

She is such a mix of the boys. She has Ben's forehead, but I think she most resembles Nate. She definitely has his mouth; a less exaggerated prehensile lip ;) and she sticks her tongue out a lot.

 

We need to get to her nursery.... I spent hours cleaning it out one day, and now I have piles of summer clothes of the boys on the floor to go through. At some point, it will be finished and she will move in. ;)

{pretty, happy, funny, real}

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So I kind of always do this - leave my blog for the last few months of pregnancy and then show back up with a couple-month-old baby. Here she is. Quite pretty, I think. :)

{happy}

Tonight we went to a dinner for Brian's work. He received an award for 5 years of full-time service. It was a nice evening, and of course we had to take a picture - but why do we always wait until the end of the night, when it's too dark to get a decent shot?

We took a field trip to the fire station on Saturday and we all rode in the fire truck. It was Andrew's first time and he was thrilled! Meagan has all the camera pictures, I just have the blurry phone pics.

{funny}

I stressed a lot about what to wear to this dinner tonight. Brian told me I had to wear a dress, of which I have NONE (at least, non-maternity ones!). He texted me this morning asking if I had figured out one, and I sent him this picture back.

 

Little Bo Peep. (I ended up wearing a skirt and a new striped sweater.)

 I am a big fan of Jennifer's but I assume she doesn't have any idea who I am. I sent this picture to a friend with the caption "a celebrity is following me on Pinterest!" ;)

 

This was the ad I got on my Brad Paisley Pandora station (my station of choice when I'm out walking or jogging.) Um, nope... wrong target market. Is Uncle Snoop the same as Snoop Dog? See how much I know about hip-hop music?

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Did I mention we moved 7 days before my due date? Thankfully, baby came late, as they always do, and since we keep our babies in our room for several months, we kind of just piled everything in her future room with plans to go through it... soon. This picture was taken after several HOURS of work. It is actually almost completely finished now, just an empty room with a dresser and some brown walls. I am so excited to decorate a girl nursery! 

 

 

Oh, this is a whole lotta real.

7 Quick Takes Friday, v. i-don't-know-i'd-have-to-go-back-and-count

1. Well hello, blog! Life has been 7 kinds of crazy lately. Some hours I feel like I'm flying and then 16 puzzles get dumped out and we have a meal and pears get spilled on the floor and then at naptime someone undoes an entire rubber band ball (oh, twice! because Mom wasn't smart enough to remove it completely from their field of vision after the first time). And diapers and baths and laundry, and this is all just the normal routine! And it's all awesome. But whoa, it's hard to stay on top of, even when you try (now that I'm back to trying rather than surviving.)

2. I love my iPhone. I don't like that I feel a little bit like a snob with it, maybe because I feel like there is something about it (probably the $$$$$ monthly data package) that makes it seem a little bit like a status symbol? And maybe that's just a personal hangup (although I've heard other people say the same thing so it's not JUST me.) But still. Like whoa. I use it ALL the time to take pictures when I just want a snappie and don't want to pull out the big camera. GPS saved me when I had to go to jury duty. And Facebook and Words with Friends have increased my productivity significantly. (lie.) It's not indispensable, but it's nice!

3. Spring break does not exist for online students. Well supposedly it does, but each teacher kind of makes up her (her? I think all my professors are female this semester?) own schedule, one teacher that is observing spring break next week has this week's assignment due Monday, so... does that really count? When you don't get 7 (or even 5) uninterrupted days with NOTHING due, I say no.

4. These kids. They say the cutest and funniest things. Some of which I have recorded on FB and some I typed into my phone, all of which are insanely adorable and which make up for any misbehavior. Most misbehavior.

5. Oh, the weather! Glorious 75 degrees yesterday and today. Tomorrow's forecast says 46, and Sunday says 39, which is just poopy. But 2 days of a glimpse of spring - we'll take what we can get.

6. We put an offer on a house last week. I spent a weekend pinning house improvements that I wanted to do with this particular house in mind. They accepted a higher bid (we offered more than the asking price, even - we knew there were multiple offers and we heard they were expecting there to be 10 by the time they decided on one.) I am slowly getting over it but still disappointed. Oh, perfect house with the perfect 2.7 acres in the perfect location at a perfect price - maybe your twin could pop up down the street?

7. Brian bought a new suit this week for an important event he had at work. This is only newsworthy because he hasn't bought a suit since high school. He had two; one has been too short and small for years, the other one, he ditched the pants but the jacket still fit, so when he needs a jacket he wears it with his tan pants. Makeshift solution that was no longer a solution. So we all went suit shopping (why!?!? oh, because I thought it would be fun to go together) and while he got fitted and tried things on, the boys and I hung out, not so still or quietly. Oh, I can look back and laugh. Maybe if I weren't so concerned about what onlookers thought, that the word "rambunctious" might pop into their heads, I would have enjoyed it more. I struggle with that balance - keeping them calm enough to avoid stares and eyerolls, but letting them enjoy themselves and not expecting them to be little statues. Because they are little boys. And little boy does not = statue.
(We were in a regular department store, by the way, not some high-faluting fancy suit shop. Not a non-kid-friendly store.)

Ok, that was quick! Probably because I didn't have to try to mess with adding pictures and formatting that and centering them and figuring out why they won't become the size I want. I love pictures. But tonight, I'm tired.

Divine Silence

After two very busy days (Sunday: Mass, Aunt Lovey's birthday party, Grandpa's birthday party; Monday: tutoring/piano, afternoon playdate) and a Tuesday morning at Granny's because I had jury duty today (!), everyone was pretty much pooped this afternoon. Nate has mostly given up his afternoon nap, but Ben is not even close to being ready to do that, so 2 days of not napping AND going to bed late had taken their toll! I have been enjoying almost two full hours of silence. golden. Not doing anything terribly productive and it feels nice. ;)

I have a vague to-do list in my head, which includes getting pictures from Andrew's birthday party off Meagan's camera (I did bring my own but when I saw she had hers close by I decided to let her do the photos!), writing thank you notes, and taking Andrew's "1" picture for our wall! I haven't done a "professional" picture of him (I call them professional even though I take them because I use a nice background and have them printed at a professional lab, does that count?) since 5 months.

A few days off from homework is making SUCH a difference. I had a lot of work due last week and over the weekend, and I felt like I was struggling to catch my breath! Taking 12 credit hours was definitely not what I wanted, but I was hoping for a light fall semester (6 credits) and then I'd be DONE. Since I will have a newborn and all! School usually starts somewhere around August 15, and my due date is August 3. I just found out that I will probably have to take Composition 2 because they won't accept my freshman English from Christendom, despite the fact that I took a grad level English class 2 semesters ago and got an A. So, 9 fall credits. But then I will be dooooooone. Forever and ever! So even though I feel like I'm barely getting by this semester, it will be a good thing that I took all 4 classes, I think.

 

He enjoys climbing into things. And he can open the oven door. eek.

I finished my skirt that I ranted about the other day. When I pulled the sewing machine back out, it worked perfectly. (That seems to be the story of my life right now - my check engine light went on Sunday, was on all day yesterday, and this morning was off again! All my stuff is like "let's stop working long enough for her to get really frustrated but not long enough for her to get around to trying to fix us.")

When I went to iron the hem, my iron got a cute little rust spot on it! I don't know if this skirt was really meant to be. ;) But, it's done.

I realized that I do not have a full-length mirror (how!?) so I need to remedy that and then I will post a picture of it. It didn't turn out as cute as I anticipated, which is fairly normal, but it's good enough to wear, I think. ;)

This is my current "take a picture of myself" method - with the webcam! Doesn't it look kind of cloudy? This is my "what I wore Tuesday - jury duty" outfit (NOT the new skirt). A guy thought I looked familiar and asked me if I went to his church. Apparently he is Pentecostal, and he thought that I guess because of my skirt, maybe I was too? I am also wearing a headband (so like my 'headcovering'?). I don't know. I couldn't help but laugh. I was wearing makeup... and my skirt is not super long!

My period of golden silence is almost up - I hear chatter from the other bedroom. :)

The Monday Review v. 3 - Keep That Gut Bacteria in Check!

Most of us have probably heard about probiotics - bacteria that help maintain natural balance in our digestive tract. A lot of people recommend probiotics during and after a course of antibiotics - antibiotics kill off bacteria, including the "good" bacteria, so probiotics will replace the bacteria that was killed off. If our "gut flora" is out of whack, we can have all kinds of digestive problems, most of them issues that occur in the lavatory, which we will not discuss in detail but yeah. Not so much fun.

Since it is believed that 70% of the body's immune system dwells in the digestive tract, keeping the digestive tract healthy is important.

In comes Good Belly. Many probiotics are in pill form, and have to be refrigerated to keep the cultures alive. Good Belly is a liquid probiotic in the form of fruit juice. It comes in several different flavors, and 8oz a day contains 20 billion live and active cultures per serving. A LOT. (You really should go to their site and watch the short video that explains just how they work - it is cute.)

 

I was so skeptical when I decided to try this. I am a picky person. Not just about my food, but my drinks, too. I LOVE juice. I really like the Dole blends - orange peach mango, strawberry kiwi - anything fruity is good to me. And if this was going to be gross, or have a weird aftertaste - no thanks. I'll stick with probiotic capsules. (Which I take very unfaithfully because I'm forgetful.)

But I was not disappointed. I drove all the way to Whole Foods (15 min further than the grocery store) JUST to get Good Belly, and it was completely worth it. It is DELICIOUS. I have tried Pomegranate Blackberry, Blueberry Acai, and Mango, and loved them all. I usually have mine mid-morning as a pick-me-up drink. It's very sweet and tastes basically just like the Dole juices - not weird or "extra healthy." haha. They have a green kind that may be a little more leafy-tasting, but I'm going to stay away from that one and stick with the fruity flavors.

And thanks to that nice guy I married, the health market section of our Hy-Vee also carries it now! No more trips to Whole Foods. It helps to have connections in high places, but even if he hadn't asked for me, it never hurts to put in a word at your local grocery store. Their health market manager really tries to get the things customers ask for, and they'll never know you want it unless you ask!

The downside is that it is not cheap. A quart (pictured above) is $3.99, and 8oz a day means it's $1 a day. They encourage everyone to take the 12-Day Challenge - drink it for 12 days in a row (and they give you coupons!) and if you don't like the results, they will give you a full refund. So while it's quite a bit more expensive than capsule probiotics (about 2x the price for a HIGH-quality refrigerated probiotic), they stand behind it. And if you often drink juice with breakfast, you can replace it with this, which makes it even more worth it, because you don't have to spend the $3 on juice. So if you think of it as a 2-for-1, it's really not that bad.

I didn't complete the 12-Day Challenge. I did it for 10 days and then ran out (before Hy-Vee started carrying it, and I didn't have it in me to make a WF trip with the kids), but I have just started again. I did notice that my stomach was SIGNIFICANTLY more settled after I had been drinking it for several days. And some of the common pregnancy issues were helped by this. I definitely noticed a huge improvement, and less bloating/crampiness.

So I think it is worth a try! I love it.

Check out the Monday Review linky party here at The Champ Life - thanks to Andrea for hosting!